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If you are  single , there must be someone you are crushing on. When we are crushing on someone, we always wish they’d like us back. But sometimes it doesn’t happen that way. That’s because a lot of people just sit on the sidelines and hope that things will happen. It’s like you have a 20-ft barrier between the two of you, and you just wave from a distance. Just like God helps those who help themselves, love comes to those who attract it themselves. If you want to attract your crush, start by just being yourself then follow these helpful, surefire ways to ignite that sought-after spark.

Sometimes a really hot person moves to the house next to yours and you can’t help but fall deeply for them. Of course, the appeal of the hot neighbor is impossible to deny; how can you consistently rebuff a lovely face you see every day on the stairs or hang-line? Sooner or later, alcohol or a lack of self-discipline will lead you into a licentious entanglement with the neighbor, particularly if you’re an emotional parasite or a ‘fisi’ However, crushing on your neighbour comes with it’s own bag of setbacks. All sorts of complications arise and you wish this was much straightforward. But it will never be. Here are some of the challenges you face when you are crushing on your neighbour.

I used to say that there is nothing like a wife material. But then in this life we are all in a certain group where we have been categorized. We have been put into different categories because of our characteristics and that is how we choose our friends and even fall in love with our partners. It is these categories that help us know who is who and this is also where wife materials come in. These are women not girls, women that are fit to take care of a family and understand that being a woman who is able to love and take care of her future husband is not bad but precious and important.

For a woman, one of the best parts of being pregnant is when she gets to share the happy news with her lover. The problem is that men aren’t always so enthusiastic about pregnancies, especially if the woman in question is just a girlfriend or friend with benefits and not an official wife. Pregnancies scare men and as a result, we tend to react in the most blunderous ways. It’s important to understand that the woman did not make the baby alone. No matter how shocked you are, avoid saying the wrong thing. But wait…what’s the wrong thing to say? Here are some classic examples:

It is good to be well mannered. The golden rule in life is to be pleasant but not pretentious. Women have always been told how to be from time and immemorial. Told how to dress, what not to eat, how to eat and there are just too many expectations that are far fetched. Shame shouldn’t be part of us, we already go through so much to be told what to do all the damn time. Women should stop feeling responsible for how society views them and just be themselves and here are some of the things women should never be ashamed of.

As sensitive as this issue may seem, it’s a real thing every woman has to deal with at a certain time in life. Good news is, nature has blessed us with some remedies that help combat any ‘nunu’ scent around the vaginal area. Let’s see five simple household items we can effectively use.

Being in  style  is not something you need to spend a fortune on, knowing how to go about it is what makes you stand out. You can buy a cheap  attire  and wear it expensively based on your style but unfortunately, most men think they are stylish and so do not need advice from anyone but when a stylist walks into a room, everyone can tell he looks different from all the other men. You might see yourself as being stylish but you could be making a lot of mistakes with the way you dress and it is pretty common among a lot of men.

Tag yourself I’m the kinky one In case you haven’t heard, 2018 is the year of the hoe. It’s a  hoe renaissance out there and we’re all just living in it, getting by whatever way we can. Long gone are the days when girls ate shit and accepted being branded a hoe for   having balloons , using Snapchat or generally being alive, now is the era of saying “if this shit makes me a hoe then fuck it, I’m a hoe”. The lifestyle is  often a struggle , but for those who embrace it the hoe subculture and “bonding over thottery” is a truly peaceful place. Earlier this year  babe  wrote: “Being sexually promiscuous isn’t a new phenomenon — we all know that women love sex just as much as everyone else. This is just the first time we have a free pass to express it with humor and camaraderie. Really, we’re reclaiming the hoe label. Yeah, we can be hoes but we’re going to hoe on our own terms.” And so,  as with fuckboys , the hoe phenomenon has developed and mutated and grown – now we can e

Never trust a man with an Apple Watch Just search “things to avoid in a man” on Google and there will be a gazillion listicles by hundreds of girly magazines on clear deal-breakers. “Don’t go for a cheater”, “don’t go for a 40-year-old who lives with his mum”, “don’t go for a man who invades Poland”, and various other horrendously obvious no-goes. But if you really want to know which traits to avoid in a guy, who better to ask than a dude himself? After all, we’re the ones who have seen what goes on behind the scenes. So, here you go. Your wish is my command – a guide for things to avoid in a guy by, yours truly, a guy.

Without just asking We've thirst-trapped,  hurt-trapped , and acted like straight up hoes on our soon-to-expire Instagram stories, but there's a new kind of trapping that'll be more helpful in  determining your relationship status , and it's called period-trapping. In many cases (all cases), they won't be the one to define what ya'll are doing together, fucking like rabbits and actually  watching  the film on movie night. And because asking them the status of your relationship is absolutely out of the question, this tactic will be your most successful.

The actual vagina is really just a hole, not the entire ‘V’ shape Never have I  ever  thought it would be possible to be jealous of another girl's anatomy, but after having been forced to change pre-gym class in front of all girls (some of whom didn't care for underwear), it definitely had me blushing at the sight of my own. After doing a deep dive into vaginas (not like that, you perve), I found that there are a lot of different shapes, sizes and slits way different from my girl downstairs and the ones I watch in porn. If guys can examine, compare and talk their dick talk in the locker rooms, why should us girls feel any different about taking a look down under our skirts for a change? So grab a mirror, ladies (or put your phone in camera in selfie mode), and find out which of these vagina types belong to you:

 A comprehensive list In sex, as in life, there are many things we wish we could say, but can’t because it’ll hurt someone’s feelings, can’t because it’s awkward, can’t because they’ll get offended, can’t because you’ll lose out on sex. But while you might not be able to tell someone directly how you feel, you could easily cop out and passive-aggressively share this article instead. Hopefully that will make them stop doing these things. We just want to help. We’re just being honest, OK?

Great relationships are founded on good communication, but that doesn’t mean that you can say anything and everything that pops into your head. There are certain things that are better left unsaid. Here are some things that you should never say to your boyfriend, because you love him and you’re not going to be  that  girl.

A schoolboy has described how he was left “scarred for life” by a teaching assistant who had sex with him 50 times and told him she was pregnant.

Understanding women isn’t easy and the fact that they can hide their emotions pretty well just makes deciphering them harder. When women give up on a relationship, they will be hesitant to be vocal about it until the very end. What they will do is show subtle signs of dissatisfaction for you to pick up on. If you can’t see these red flags and don’t act quickly enough, fixing the relationship could be beyond hope. Here are 10 warning signs to look out for when she’s not in love with you anymore:

If you’re active in the fetish community, you know that there are some fetishes that you either love or hate. One of the most common fetishes that fits this bill is creampies. Creampies in the fetish world are known as what happens when a man finished by ejaculating in either the woman’s vagina or anus. Some people love this idea, others don’t. For those who don’t like it, we wanted to explain what it is. We decided to ask why people like it, and here’s what they told us… Do you think some fetishes are normal according to our biological urges? Have you ever had a partner who preferred ejaculating inside of you, as opposed to elsewhere? Tell us your thoughts in the comments below.

South African based music cable station, Channel O and  Forbes Africa  recently presented the top 10 most bankable African artists. According to Channel O, the top ten were determined by a number of factors such as endorsements, brand value, earnings, bookings, popularity, and social media presence. The list shows the African artists making the most money in Africa.

Women are notorious for ignoring  texts  from guys. This move has been infamously dubbed “giving someone the blue ticks.” But the reality is that girls don’t do this for fun. They have their reasons. As a guy, you might be scratching your mustache and wondering why after sending her the smoothest line you could possibly come up with, she still hasn’t replied. Or maybe she has gone quiet completely nowadays. It’s important to figure out why she is silent as it may help to alleviate your frustration. So here are some possible reasons why she is giving you the blue ticks.

Everyone definitely wants bae to do romantic things for them. Relationships become fun when both parties are on the same page and are committed to making things work. Communication is one of the ways people can get on the same page and settle differences. In this age where texting is one of the major ways of communicating, here are some kinds of messages everyone wants to receive from their partner:

People generally don’t want something until it is gone. It is a hard philosophy to live by, like are you meant to always be scarce? Well, one thing you should never allow anyone to do is take your time and efforts for granted. Some people keep giving their all in fear of  those people leaving. But think about it? Is it worth keeping someone who you have to keep fighting for their attention? Sometimes you need to step back and see if you’re actually relevant in a man’s life. Respect yourself, get some iced tea, take a chill pill and stop leeching. Try these ways to get him to miss you and if he doesn’t miss you afterwards just walk way.

We are always told, to be honest in our  relationships . But in a relationship, there are times when lying is necessary. The truth hurts and sometimes lying may be required to save your relationship from going down a negative spiral. Lying to your  partner  may not be something that you want to do, but it really can be the best way to avoid drama, and keep the harmony in your  relationship . Sparing your partner some insecurity is a good investment for your relationship. But these lies should be small lies, not serious lies like if you cheated. White lies are small, harmless lies, which people tell in order to avoid creating problems that don’t need to happen.

Women want equality with everything. Since time and immemorial, women have always wanted to be considered in everything this recently includes sex robots.

Nobody likes a boring chatter. However, sometimes you really don’t have any conversation starters, or maybe the chat is going dry and you just don’t know how to save it. Here are 7 texts that will guarantee a response back from any guy: 

Before you start wondering why in the world  women  would be good in something men do all the time, think about how many of your  ex-girlfriends  you never caught cheating but found out so much later? Women have the ability to keep secrets for a much longer time and the idea that women have to be emotionally attached to you after  sex is utter nonsense. We take our time and do everything after we have well calculated the risks and how much loss is actually involved. Men can be reckless and stupidly leave all clues for us to figure it out while we know how to clear all evidence.

A passionate kiss is a universal pleasure, but in Africa, it’s a rare sight. The current generation is trying to embrace PDA but it’s still it’s not every day that you will see a couple kissing at a bus stage, in a supermarket or on the street. So why do Africans hate kissing in public?