Confessions Of 17 People before Losing Their Virginity (wittyfeed)

Half knowledge is dangerous! Hence proved.

Intimacy and virginity are much talked about topics. But not as information, but as taboos or mere jokes. Maybe this is why this post had to come up. Living in the 21st Century, there are still certain things such as "sex" that are still talked about in a hush-hush tone. No one is still as vocal about it, despite it being a basic human need. To having sex and to losing virginity, there are a lot of important precautions and instructions that have to be kept in mind. 

Also, maybe because of a lack of information and awareness of the topic and looking at it merely as a source of pleasure is not the right way. That is something divine and must be vocally addressed to release the unending taboos and speculations around it. 

Here are deeply honest confessions of people on Reddit, who wish they had known some of the important intricacies of the act, before indulging in one. They are so innocently candid that they can be any of us. Have a look.

#1. To unravel or not to unravel 

Here goes the confession:

"You do not need to completely unravel a condom before you apply it to your penis."

#2. Sometimes it may be tough to get in, to open the 'locked door'.

Now, this is an honest confession, an experienced one.

"Vaginas can be really tight, and if you are a little floppy from nerves or whatever, it's not going to go in."

H/T- Reddit

#3. When one is inexperienced and does not know how to do and what to do...

Here is honesty:

"I honestly wish I knew that it wasn't a requirement to slap her on the ass."

#4. When being so young that feelings take us for a ride.

Here goes the confession:

"You might feel a super instant attachment to that person, but they might not feel the same way about you."

#5. When more of sex education is needed.

That imparted in the classrooms is not enough.

"If you don't have a condom and she says "it's okay I take the pill" do NOT proceed. Seriously. It's not only about getting her pregnant and producing a money destroying hell demon, but also STDs and stuff."

#6. When not every girl can be a boy's catch.

"That not all girls like to be jizzed on."

Happy realisation, folks!

#7. When he means it enough to piss you off!

Too much care is also a turn-off.

"That if she starts making noise, it's a good thing. I asked "are you okay?" enough times to hear an "I'M FINE." response."

#8. For identifying the clit is as complex for the newbies!

The honest, confused confession:

"There's this thing…its called the clitoris…and its kind of a big deal."

#9. When this knowledge had been known a little earlier.

The unsatisfied one:

"I wish I knew it wasn't as big a deal as people made it out to be, and I should have started enjoying safe sex much younger than I did and with more people I felt close to."

#10. When passion gets too far-fetched that hickeys are still untermed!

An experienced confession:

"How hickeys work…I'm so sorry Emma."

#11. An epic one coming your way! ROFL!

Here it goes...

"Which hole."

#12. When you must spend some fun time together first.

The confession is:

"Have at least 2 condoms; spermicide also comes in handy. Is the lady on the pill? This is very important! Have some wet wipes for after to clean up. Wait for the right time, and allow plenty of time to get to know each other. Usually, it won't last too long if you are doing it right, but it will get better guys!"

#13. Don't be afraid of a 'NO'!

A brave confession, here:

"Be unafraid of very clear, direct communication. Your needs, requests, questions etc. are meant to be respected, as is your partner's. Everyone was a virgin at some point; it shouldn't be stigmatised, so don't be afraid of saying you are one and asking the questions you need answers to."

#14. For there are certain manners and safety precautions, too.

Although a pressure for the newbies.

Here is the confession:

"Pee after."

But, pee before, also!

#15. For the man must know for how long it should be in!

Here is the savage one:

"Just wait two months dude, don't stick your dick in crazy.

Seriously, as much fun as it sounds, do not stick your dick in the crazy."

#16. For disappointment is in lack of skill.

Surely not a turn on, but a big blooper!

"It'll be disappointing at first, but it's lack-of-skill disappointing, not is-that-all-there-is disappointing."

#17. When you are so confused aftter the act that you do not know how to face each other.

This is how it goes...

"Don't feel like you have to last forever.

After she had an orgasm, she was done, said it was too sensitive to keep going. Didn't offer me any assistance with my stuff, so she was sitting in the truck listening to music while I was standing outside whacking it in the moonlight next to a cow pasture."

We hope you enjoyed the confessions and could identify with them